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Not so fancy (but informative)
baby website: This series of photos does
a pretty good job of telling the story of the last few days.
Colin MacIntyre
6lbs 10oz is on the left, and Owen Parker, 6lbs, 2oz is
on the right.
Beckie was umm, kind of
large and in charge and the twins wanted to come out, but biology was not
cooperative. So after weeks of thinking tomorrow could be the day…the
hospital finally scheduled us for an inducement. They were very busy so we
were pushed back about 5 more days than we expected. 5 days might not sound
like much to you guys, but, according to Beckie, there are circumstances
where it really is. This was moments before we left for our “last-last date”
together without worrying about planning or baby-sitters. The previous night
we went to the movies. This night we went to Jimmy Johns and Blockbuster.
Exciting.
Here we are on Wednesday
night. “Let’s get this show on the road,” we and the doctor said! We were
excited. We would be parents within hours. The pads monitor baby heartbeats.
They work…sort of. Little did we know…
Beckie is thinking, “I can
do this.” The drugs are amplifying the labor process. Yes, it isn’t fun, but
neither is being about 39 weeks with twins. You’d think the end is near.
This is 12 hours later. We
are wondering why we just didn’t go to C-section straight away. I just caught
Beckie’s round of vomit in a pan (well most of it). It’s a long story, but
the gist is that the first baby had turned his head sideways and lodged it in
her hip/pelvis on a nerve. For 5 hours the medication didn’t help and it was
constant pain. I think Beckie’s exact words after I, feeling so guilty asked
if there was anything more I could do, said, “Take a sludge hammer to my
head.” Just when you think you can’t feel any more guilty J. Little did we know it would be another 8 hours
until the babies would arrive.
By applying all my weight
to the heel of my palm on Beckie’s hip area we were finally able to move
Colin’s head off the nerve and into the right position. It felt kind of
strange because I could feel him and was worried I would hurt him, but the
nurse helped us discover this solution. It made a big difference and at least
I was finally good for something. Anyway, this is right in the operating room
as we are being wheeled out. The babies are about 15 minutes old. I was happy
that I did not pass out during delivery. There were a couple of moments where
I felt odd, but overall, it was so engaging and dramatic, there was no time
for pansiness. Beckie was a champ. She said it was
nothing compared to the nerve thing 3-8 hours earlier.
Amazing how a couple of
babies and a few hours can make it all worth it. The nurse is our neighbor
Angel, which by sheer luck was on duty that Friday morning (yes, 32 hours
after being induced). She was the first person to bathe, test, and evaluate
the babies. Maybe someday I will use a
real program instead of Word to fix up this Web page, and add to it. For now,
this will have to do. If we had to write a sentence to sum up the days since
last Wednesday it would be this: We never thought 4 hours of straight sleep
would be a blessing, and we are so happy nonetheless—let the games begin! |